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God never promised us a rose garden Wednesday, June, 16, 2010
by John Fischer

Remember the song by R.E.M., "Smiling Happy People?" Why has that always made me think of Christians? Somewhere we have gotten the idea that our primary witness in the world is to always be happy, always bright in countenance, always on top of things. We even have a name for it: victorious Christian living.

In my church growing up there was a leading surgeon who was a great Bible teacher, with an effervescent personality and an inextinguishable positive attitude. I never saw him but that he wasn't bouncing on his tiptoes. Whenever he spoke, he had a voice that would wake the dead, and when our families would go out to dinner together, he would say the blessing in a tone that made the whole restaurant have to pray too. I'm not suggesting that any of this was not genuine -- I believe it was -- but he was held up, at least in our family, as the epitome of a victorious Christian. He was the standard for the rest of us. However short you were on measuring up to Dr. Byron's attitude and countenance was how short you were on true spirituality.

No wonder struggling people struggle even harder around Christians. It ought not to be so. I think part of the problem is we've got Christianity offering people what God never promised to deliver. Often this smiling happy life is hung on John 10:10, "I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly." "Abundant life" it's been tagged, and it sounds like a pretty good deal. But is what we think of when we hear "abundant life" what Jesus meant?

I wonder if we look at the abundant life through the glasses of the American way of freedom, democracy, the pursuit of happiness, wealth, success, individualism -- in other words, everything Americans desire and aspire to. Jesus might as well have said: "I have come to bring you life in the form of the American dream." Somehow I don't think that's what He meant.

My own study of the Greek word translated "abundant" reveals that it is basically a superlative of the former word, "life." It means Jesus came to bring us life and more of it. Part of the word implies "all around" or "circumvent" which might carry the idea that all aspects of life will be deeper. Whatever you get with life, you will get more of it with Jesus, all the way around. More sadness, more joy, more suffering, more glory, more pain, more gain, more rejection, more love... in short, more of everything. It's just an all around bigger life. And I also think it has something to do with significance -- a life that has meaning beyond this life. It's a life with a life #2.

So that leaves room for all of us, and all that we are going through. As one of our readers has commented: "Bottom line I believe that God knows that we need the depressed personality as well as the happy, happy gang. I guess to keep us grounded. I believe that Christians need to get hold of this concept and quit relating a heart in tune with God being only manifested in a big smile. I believe that God can work through a tear as well as a smile."


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Today's date: Friday, September 10, 2010
julio jaramillo Monday, June 21, 2010
BogotaColombia
you could easily replace the "american way of freedom..." part with "modern way of freedom..." or "capitalistic way of freedom..." or "ephimerous way of freedom..." and I bet it would be valid for 80% of the world, including Latin America, or even specially Latin America

This mindset is spread all over the world and is the same mindset that publicity, propaganda and magazines inject into people's minds every day.

somehow christianity seems to considered by many the:

"ultimate custom made, ultra luxurious, gold bathed, lmited edition accesory that will make you the star of the evening" (charity not included) call now before we run out of chairs!

James Evans Friday, June 18, 2010
McKinney, TX, U.S.A.
"When you learn finally to know and when you learn finally to love, you will suffer still. The day begins in tears. Those filled with light weep, if only over those filled with darkness."
--Victor Hugo, from Les Miserables

Mark Delaney Thursday, June 17, 2010
Shawnee, Kansas, USA
I’m sorry to have to correct you John, but the R.E.M. song you made reference to was titled ”Shiny Happy People”, & that wonderful womans voice was Belinda Carlile from the B-52’s. LOL.
I absolutely cherish the “Catch Of The Day”. I start out every day with it & a time of prayer. I do not know who sent it to me originally. I have asked all of my friends & none of them will own up to it. I started receiving it last August when I started going to a local Celebrate Recovery group here in Shawnee, Kansas.
I lost my 1st wife to cancer on 10-23-1998. I lost my 2nd wife to cancer on 1-13-2003. I died in the hospital room that morning & I simply imploded. I spent the next 7 years “self medicating” & I blamed God for their deaths. By the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ & the love & help of my new CR brothers I have just “graduated” from the CR 12-Step Program & have been sober since that last August day when I cried out to God & he answered me. I want to be more involved in CR as I mature in my new walk with Christ. I want to personally thank you John for your wonderful devotional. I have passed it on to a half a dozen of my CR brothers who are now receiving it every day.
Please always remember us “Shiny Happy People” at Celebrate Recovery in Shawnee Kansas.


God Bless You John
Mark Delaney

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Good for you!

Sharon Buxton Wednesday, June 16, 2010
Santee, CA, USA
I am commenting to "Keeping On" which was msssing in the list.

Your statement, "Once you have believed God and found his faith to be real and full of actual substance in the midst of demanding circumstances,...." I question your reference to "his faith" in that it isn't God's faith but my faith in Him that "is real and full of actual substance in the midst of demanding circumstances" when I discover the "rewards" in believing in Him that encourage me to trust Him more.

Drew Snider, Gospel Mission Wednesday, June 16, 2010
Vancouver, BC, Canada
I look at it this way: Jesus took our pain and sorrows with Him on the Cross, and for me, there's something about that transcendant knowledge that helps pull me through the times when I get down. I used to think that I wasn't a "good Christian" if I wasn't a shiny happy person, but as you say, getting depressed is a fact of life. What I remind myself when sadness comes on me -- or, more importantly, what my wife reminds me -- is to "take it to the Cross". Pray about it, simply saying, "Jesus, You took my sorrows: here's another for You." And doggone it, my outlook brightens, I can see more clearly and find I'm capable of dealing with the situation. That's what sets (or should set) Christians apart: when we go through troubles, we know Whom to turn to. Jesus told the Rich Young Ruler, "sell your possessions". If we look at our sorrows and guilt and other baggage as our "possessions", then we need to sell those in order to follow Him. And He turns out to be the willing buyer. (Take that a step further, if you like: "give to the poor" -- take the price He paid for your "stuff" -- His blood, the Holy Spirit, the blessing -- and pass it on to those who don't have.)

Arla Clouser Wednesday, June 16, 2010
Highland, NY, US
I have been both absurdly happy and wildly depressed. It helps me to know that Jesus promised that in this world we will have trials. When I think of this, it scares me but also helps me re-orient my thinking. It gives me pause, and helps me see that my American Christianity has some distortions in it.

Janet Parker Wednesday, June 16, 2010
Decatur , AL
Thank you so much for this, John. There is so much depression, especially among women in the church. They are made to feel like they have a "spiritual problem". If only they had enough faith they wouldn't be depressed. This way of thinking is so wrong.

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